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Parenting Plan: Post-Divorce

Divorce can be one of the most difficult things for a child to go through.Ask any adult that went through it when they were a kid and they’ll tell you…


Adult Frat Boys Don’t Turn Women On!

I went out a few weeks back with my friend, Kim. We went to this place called Mastro’s. They opened up a new one on the Pacific Coast Highway in Malibu. It replaced what was there before ...


Will One More Kid Save Your Relationship?

I had an email from a lady the other day, and it’s an email other women have sent me too. To be honest, it’s actually quite scary and needs addressing. These emails come from women who ar...


Publshed Family Law Opinion from Ky Supreme Court Today

Rumpel v. Rumpel The Supreme Court reaffirms the American Rule against shifting fees, recognizing CR 37.03 and KRS 403.220 as exceptions to the rule. In this case, $50,000 of attorney fee...


What Happens if I’m not happy with a Health Insurance Claim Decision?

There may come a time when you submit a health insurance claim and you’re not happy with the decision made by the insurance provider.  But what can you actually do about it? There are a n...


Failure to Foster Relationship with Child's Father Not Grounds for Mandating Psych Evaluation of Mother

Psychological and physical evaluations can be important tools for courts as they analyze a parent's fitness. The law, however, also maintains several hurdles on the permissibility of such...


Traumatic Teen Girl Years? We can guide you through them.

The Teen Girl Years can be a very difficult time. Help is at hand with this personalized guide to survival for Parents & Teens everywhere. A challenging time of change Being a teen is...


How To Text Her Like A Man!

OK… So this is a subject that often throws up a bit of controversy and difference of opinion – How to text women like a man, not a teenage girl! As you know, I’m not a fan of text m...


“How Do I Know If He Likes Me?”

Something women ask me about all the time is how to spot the signs a guy is interested in you. Most the time I joke and say, “If he’s talking to you, he’s interested.” But seriously, it s...


Ukrainian dating messages that work: some tips & tricks

Dear friends, if you are a Western man interested in meeting a Russian or Ukrainian woman online and is not sure how to write the first email here are some tips and tricks that..&...


Are you inadvertently dimming your light? When you have a pattern of being afraid of outshining

Last week I had what I refer to as a ‘punchbulb moment’ – a lightbulb moment that punches you in the head, aka an epiphany. I have them every once in a while, like when...


LinkedIn and Twitter, a new way to find love?

The Financial Times ran an article today about the pursuit of love on LinkedIn. Yes, this professional social media is unlikely a mean to find love. But since it’s a social media, r...


The distance between us

To watch the one you love getting slowly out of love with you is painful. To try to get him back and to get rejected again is also painful. This is a failure. Most of us experience failur...


As Summer Comes to a Close

Summer is the season of openness, which is an apt reminder for Relationships, for example.  If you’re not open, what are you?


Is Your Life Like A Broken Blender?

The other night I was having dinner at a café. It’s a completely vegetarian restaurant. I’ve eaten there plenty of times before, Café Gratitude. I’m actually changing my diet right now. I...



Sharing the Intention to Love

The truth is that we all fall short of our intentions a lot of the time, especially when it comes to our dedication to loving the people around us.  We are blessed with  these brilliant m...


Sexual Clarity

“More important than the quest for certainty is the quest for clarity.”  -Francois Gautier   If you can’t clear your mind when you are about to have sex, don’t bother. Coming into be...


What True Love Means To Me

I love sitting on a beach and just relaxing. Granted I live in Los Angeles and there are plenty of beaches there. But nothing is better than taking yourself away from your day to day acti...


What True Love Means To Me

I love sitting on a beach and just relaxing. Granted I live in Los Angeles and there are plenty of beaches there. But nothing is better than taking yourself away from your day to day acti...


August 2014: eHarmony Free Communication Weekend

This weekend, from August 15th to the 18th, eHarmony users can communicate with their matches absolutely free. The free communication weekend starts at the beginning of the day on the 15t...


Would you date yourself? Reciprocal traits in a Russian or Ukrainian bride

Dear friends, Everyone has a checklist of traits and qualifications that they keep in mind when looking for a significant other. When you’re dating, you may realize that the other p...


The Weird And Creepy World Of Tinder Dating

I’ve written about Tinder a few times before, but we need to look at this from a new angle. For those of you who don’t know what Tinder is, it’s basically a mobile dating app. Wherever yo...


Just Say Hello To Her!

I was walking on the beach in Bridge Hampton a couple of days ago, and this really attractive woman was walking toward John and I with a bunch of people. I had absolutely no idea who she ...


Why being in love is so much work

Some people are of the opinion that maintaining relationships can be tough and tasking. It has been noticed that there are some who enjoy good relationship, where other person tends to fi...