I’m a researcher, scientist and clinician with 15 years of experience in sexual and human behavior. I created this blog and twitter account, originally, as a conversation to myself. As I began tweeting lessons I learned from my own relationships and all of the clients I encountered, I realized that these lessons could prevent others from doing some of the dumb ass experiences I have had. A note on tone: sometimes my voice will seem angry, direct, brutal blunt force honest, but always with an optimistic intent and always positive. Ultimately, you have to laugh at yourself. I have structured this blog in several ways: 1) my direct experiences which will be categorized by degree of adventure, 2) lessons learned, 3) relationship tips, and 4) open dialogue. I invite you to tell me off, advise me, support me, and/or ask any questions you have. I can assure you if I haven’t experienced it directly; I have experienced it through clients. Thanks for visiting! Hope you enjoyed it (not in the orgasm way, but in the laughing with me way)! Disclaimer For legal purposes around confidentiality and disclosure, I will be concealing the identity of people.

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Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam


Hello everyone, I am girl from India, and for the purpose of anonymity for now lets call me "R". I moved to US of A 4.5 years ago to fulfill my lifetime goal and my parents dream of being a doctor here. I don't want to sugar coat it. My life's been rough both on professional and personal fronts. I made several mistakes and learned some costly lessons that almost cost me my life. I lived a great part of my life in darkness and fear, and finally I think I see a light at the end of the tunnel. Initially I just wanted to make a blog where I could talk about my relationship with my boyfriend, (lets call him "D" for now,) but I realized that my story is much more than our struggle for my parents' acceptance. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is one of the four most precious people in my life right now, others being my parents and my brother. I think my life's always been very complicated, and I am stuck in spiders web. I want this blog to represent who I am, to be an inspiration to people like me who have no one to talk to, who had to lose everything they were before they could find themselves again. So in a nut shell this blog will be about our relationship, my family, my professional struggle and my general world view. So, welcome to my world y'all. I hope you will have as much fun reading it as I have living it. :) -R.

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Love Stories


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Somewhere in Between


I am a writer of poems and stories. I feel that life is one long novel divided into chapters. My chapters change as I change my residence. I write about America, my homeland, and all its possibilities. I write about my beautiful time in Ireland which I will never forget. Now I am writing from France where everything in my life is illuminated differently. I write about all the places in between. I belong nowhere and everywhere. Many things can happen before you turn the page to the next chapter of your life. Sometimes letting go is about not giving up and it’s almost always about love

The Microwave Girl


Perhaps some of you are wondering why I’ve chosen to call myself the microwave girl. The answer is simple…. THAT’S WHO I AM!! I am she! She is me! I’m impatient, intolerant and somewhat uncompromising! I want what I want when I want it – quick, fast and in a hurry!! The problem with that is the product is usually mediocre; thus my reason for ending up in so many garbage relationships…… but we’ll talk about that later. After some much needed reflection and resolve, I’ve discovered that my microwave mindset is hindering me from becoming the person God has destined me to be. Now, I know you’re expecting me to say that I’ve changed my ways. You’re waiting for me to say that my patience has grown by leaps and bounds and I’m more tolerant today than I’ve ever been in my life! That is farthest from the truth. Like you, I’m a work in progress and the struggle to trust the process is a very real one. However, what I’ve learned on my journey to break free of the microwave mindset is that when God says He can do exceedingly and abundantly above all we can ask or think, He means it! We may not always understand why He has us in waiting, but we can rest in the assurance that He always has our best interest at heart. We can relax knowing that God is in control of every situation. Things will start to happen when He knows the time is right. My blog will take you on a journey of self-awareness and I’ll serve as your personal tour guide while sharing my personal I want it now struggles. My prayer is that I can help you rid yourself of that microwave mindset in exchange for one of irrefutable trust in God’s timing.